Intimacy is a feeling of closeness and connection in an interpersonal relationship. It is essential in marriage relationships but also plays a vital role in other relationships with friends, family members, coworkers, and acquaintances. The word intimacy is derived from the Latin word “intimus,” which means ‘inner’ or ‘innermost.’ It is this internal desire that drives us deeper into all relationships.
Intimacy is at the heart of relationship, and there are different types of intimacy. Not all relationships involve all types of intimacy, but these four are the most common types: physical, emotional, mental or intellectual, and spiritual. Intimacy is something we all desire.
Some people fear intimacy and are scared of getting too close. The fear of vulnerability and losing one’s identity can also cause some to be guarded and aloof. Fear is a strong emotion that can distort reality at all levels and destroy relationships.
Why is intimacy such a big deal in relationships? Here are a few reasons: it enhances trust, improves communication, encourages openness, boasts happiness, deepens commitment, and has some awesome effects on your health. Our souls crave it, and we need it.
On May 17, 2025, I will be married to the same woman for 44 years. When Lisa and I got married, we were very young and naïve, but we made a commitment. That commitment to each other and the life we have experienced together has forged an intimacy that goes beyond anything we imagined on our wedding day.
The Bible tells us that we are made in the image of God, and a key part of that image is the desire for intimacy. How do I know this? Because our intimacy with God, His highest priority for our lives, determines our impact on earth and in eternity. God wants an intimate relationship with you. He sees your potential, knows you, and goes to great lengths to make it a reality. We all want to make an impact, and the best way to make the greatest impact is to develop an intimate relationship with God.
At Doing Good at Work, we help people make an impact in their personal, family, work, and community lives. It starts with caring and progresses as relationships are nurtured to produce the desired outcome. It encourages and promotes intimacy in all relations. Click HERE to start the conversation.
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Boomer
Dr. Boomer Brown, Ph.D., is the CEO of Doing Good at Work, a 501(c) 3 organization that operates with the efficiency of a business. Our mission is to ‘Make People Better’ because we firmly believe that better people make better businesses, and better businesses make a better world. Learn more about our work and how you can be part of this transformative journey: https://doinggoodatwork.com/